How can I become better in bed? What are the real tricks to pleasing my partner between the sheets? Is there any way to tell if I’m doing anything wrong WITHOUT needing to ask?
And what about all of those plenty of blog posts, content articles and product pitches that PROMISE to make me a super hero in the sack?
Do they work?
ARE there basically any secret methods for sensational sex that a woman WANTS me to know, and if there is, how do I discover them?
Any of these questions sound familiar? If they do, you are not alone.
If you are everything like the thousands of men who enjoy our articles and blog posts each and every day, the truth is… your ARE anxious about your skill in the sack.
But don’t worry… so TOO is she! Believe it or not, ladies are equally as self conscious, and often just as insecure about what pleases a man, as you are about offering her the sex date of a lifetime as well. This is especially important if you’re a tiny bit serious and WANT the relationship to last.
Here are a few very simple do’s and “don’t do’s” for ideal sex from a woman’s perspective.
The best part? Even if you don’t feel 100% comfortable in giving her what she wants, the likelihood is, if you follow the easy road map below, you’ll have a very happy woman on your hands anyway!
DO spend at least TWICE as much time on foreplay, as you do on intercourse. Sexual research, and surveys show that the typical woman needs about 3 times MORE sexual stimulation than a man to climax. If you double the amount of time your focus on foreplay before actual sex, the possibility of her being able to orgasm DURING sex goes up significantly.
DO work on improving your stamina and staying power if you are worried about her ability to orgasm. Again, the Largest complaint women have about intercourse? It ends too rapidly! Most men last 5 minutes or less during actual sex, and regrettably, the way our bodies are built, a woman simply can’t usually achieve climax in that short of a time, whereas men, definitely can.
DON’T assume your current woman likes the same things as your previous partner did. Why? Due to the fact unless you ask, you have no idea what her sexual sensitivities may be, or even what taboos may turn her completely OFF! Keep in mind, the same things may have been totally cool with someone else may not be cool with her.
DON’T consistently ask a woman if you are doing it right, or if she is turned on, or worse… if you are as great as someone else she has been with. Without question, that is the BIGGEST “no-no” in the book!
As a matter of fact, most ladies admit that they learn to fake orgasm for that specific reason… to get over the annoying questions that many men ask about their performance, particularly when’s she’s not even close to climax.
DO focus on good interaction, and setting the scene both prior to sex, and after. Women are far more likely to judge good sex on the totality of the experience, and that includes things that most men don’t think about all that important.
Trust me, she DOES, and will notice the little details both before and after the erotic experience is over.
The bottom line? It’s not rocket science. She wishes to please… and BE pleased as well.
Follow as much as the above tips as you can, and watch her enjoyment of sex, and of YOU go through the roof, I guarantee!